“I can see summertime slipping on away…”

August 31st, 2008 .

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Russian kids/creators of Runaway.

The Russian students were very eager to take us out and about exploring St. Petersburg. We had this particular student, Nastya, who is younger, so she struggles with English. However, ‘struggles’ is the key word, because damn, she tries so hard. Her father, Mikeal, is so proud of her studies and he wanted to take us out to show his appreciation. We agreed to have dinner with them (Mikael also brought along his friend from Estonia to meet us) and then go on a short tour of the city. So, because we had already done a lot of the touristy stuff, he wanted to show us the old, run down parts of St. Petersburg. We ate at this traditional Russian buffet place that serves this style of food that sounds like this Yo-kie- Polk-ie (that is for sure NOT how you spell it. Haha!) That is where it started to get interesting. In my previous post, you saw the jelly looking madness…well, that night is when it happened. Really, catfood MUST taste better than that stuff. So, after dinner, we proceed to go on a three hour tour (just like the castaways in Gilligans Island) with a man who does not speak a WORD of English, his daughter who struggles with every word while translating, a man from Estonia and one of our other students (Fedor…which sounds like Fjord-or) who just nods his head mostly. Awesome. Here is some of what we saw:

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Estonian on the left; Mikael in the middle; Nastya on the right.

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While ordering pasta from a small kiosk in Stockholm, I struggle to find the Swedish words for what I want to eat. I can clearly see that the man behind the counter is an immigrant and assume he does not speak much English, so I figured we maybe could fight through my bad Swedish together. I manage to get out what I want and then go to pull money out of my wallet. As I open my wallet, there are American dollars there. He sees them and says to me in English “You from America?”

I shake my head yes.

He smiles and says, “I am from Baghdad. We have the same president.”

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I have not been to Hank and Emelie’s home in several years and since they just purchased their first apartment, it seemed time to pay them a visit. I took the train up to the town where they live, Gavle, Sweden, and spent 24 hours just hanging out with them. We just took everything slow, cooked dinner, sipped wine, drank beer, ate seared tuna, drank some more, melted chocolate, sliced fruit, cooked it in wine, ate our creation, had sweet dessert wine, played guitar, sang and feel asleep on the couch. It was just what it should have been.

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Emelie’s toe is pointing to a circle in the floor where there used to be a bell for the master of the house to ring in order to get the servants attention. Umm, Harry also sleeps in the old ‘servants quarters.’ Haha! Old places are cool.

So, little Harry is starting to talk a lot in Swedish. It is interesting, because we can almost communicate with one another since my Swedish is about as good as his. Em left me with him for a few minutes in Ikea and he and I had a great time playing and trying to understand what the other one was saying. Part of me thinks he knows that I can only speak as well as he can, so he was very patient with me, repeating words as if saying “come on, Carrie, say it like this. The good news is that Harry does know the most important phrase in English. Check it out.

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A weekend in the country. No running water. No flushing toilets. Peace.

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A ride on the motorboat…close up.

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This could just be as easily be a picture of Kansas. I love that.

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Российская

August 24th, 2008 .

This is just a post of pictures that I made when I couldn’t reach the FREE WORLD.

The streets of Russia: Take one.

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We took a sunset boat ride through the canals out to the Neva by the famous Hermitage Muesuem. The sun did its job.

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What’s that, you ask? Why, that is Pizza Hut pizza!

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This is taken outside of the Peterhoff. It is the palace that Peter the Great thought that he needed to escape the ‘hard life’ in the city.

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Yes. Real gold. Can you say excessive?

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The last of the Peterhoff photos.

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People in Russia get married on any day of the week in the summer. There are brides and grooms everywhere down by the river.

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How do you like this, Swedish pals?

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Do you see that weird jelly like stuff at the bottom right hand side of the plate? Umm…that stuff is like cat food, covered in thick jelly, lard and flavored with…umm…death.

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The sun setting on Nevsky Prospect (the main street running through the city.)

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Soon I will show the actual work that happened…

Internet access?

August 21st, 2008 .

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So I put together this long post with pictures and such but cannot find a public server in Russia that will let me upload it. GRRRR!
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Just had a ‘tea date’ with the principal of the school (Igor) where we are working. We ended up drinking Greek wine in his office…IN the school. Damn, things are different here.
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Saw the FOURTH ACT of Swan Lake at the Russian Ballet. Yeah, the fourth act only. It was genius. We got to go in for free, sat in box seats, watched for 30 minutes until the end of that act and then left. Is there a better way to see a ballet that lasts for 4 hours?
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Get ready for my rant about how Russia is behind the times. It is coming.
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“And I would walk 500 miles…”

August 18th, 2008 .

I am having a great time in St. Petersburg. Last summer when I was here, I was simply emotionally and physically exhausted and because of that I was really unable to enjoy anything about this place. We are working with 17 Russian kids daily, struggling with the language barrier that really makes me think about how I talk (more about that later,) and walking all over every inch of this city. On Saturday, we walked 22,000 steps and on Sunday, we topped that by walking 28,200. Seriously, we walked for hour upon hour. My feet with never be the same. There is a lot to talk about and many photos to post, but Internet access is so limited, it will have to wait.
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I hope everything is okay in the U.S. Just read about the storm coming towards Florida. Is it going to be bad? Hmm, I guess you never really know until it happens.

What is the Obama vibe over there? People are not afraid to give their opinions over here=)

Rush-ah

August 13th, 2008 .

In Russia.

Safe.

All is well.

Music, matrimony and mayhem…

August 11th, 2008 .

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Well, I DID get my Visa after all- never mind the fact that it cost almost $600.00 to do so. I know, I know, maybe it would have been better if I had not. The situation with the Georgians is not good, however, I have spoken with my Russian friends and they assure me all is safe and well in St. Petersburg. Although I will have no way of knowing until I get there, I feel safe in their care. We will be staying in one of their flats and will be with Russian citizens all the time. After being there once, I know better than to be out on the streets alone. I won’t do it. The thing that sucks is that communication there is not so hot. Their wireless network leaves a lot to be desired, so I do not know how much I will be able to update my blog, call from Skype or send e-mails. Boo. I leave in the morning…
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So much has been going on the past weeks. Last week, right after we closed the Lovewell Sweden show, we headed to a 2 day, 30th birthday bash for my friend Kalle. Basically, he brought a sound system, a bunch of instruments, a big tent, a couple of grills and a boat load of beer out to a campground by the sea and invited everyone he knew. It was a wild good time and sort of unlike anything I have seen before. There was dancing all night long that began with the local Swedish Folk dancing team. Unfortunately, I did not get them on video so this video that was taken at 3 in the morning after we had been going at it since 6pm will have to do.

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I brought Kalle the American Whisky collection for his b-day. How appropriate.

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They taught me how to make these crazy Swedish pancakes with bacon in them. We did it on the grill in these little skillets. I think I made about 30 of them before my eyes felt like they would fall out of the sockets from all of the smoke.

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My first victim trying the very first weird cake I made.

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Me and the b-day boy…wait…they get better…

Like this…
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Yep. A Swedish man wearing a Mexican sombrero and a silver, 1970’s style sport coat. Hot.

Oh yeah, and so then, a bunch of the chicks dressed up like hula girls and gave Kalle a birthday dance that I am quite sure he enjoyed.
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Needless to say, it was a great party.
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This weekend, we took the 3 hour boat ride over to Gotland to attend Nina and Staffan’s wedding. I guess it is the first time I have been on a ship that big, so that is cool.

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And now to the actual wedding…
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The church.

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Elenor. 8 months pregnant. Singing like and angel.

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Little random dude who was dressed like a rockstar…

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…big dude who looks like a rockstar. This is Alex. He is Jenny’s boyfriend from Mexico. Jenny did Lovewell in 1996 as a student here in Sweden and then was on staff in 2003. I just met her for the first time at the wedding. Super cool.

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You can see the bride and groom way out on the peer on the left.

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Orlando the Cuban at the Swedish wedding.

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It is customary to have a seating chart at Swedish weddings. It is also customary for people to be split up from the people that they came to the wedding with. Thankfully, Nina and Staffan did a nice job with the arrangement and put me right next to Jenny, knowing that we would hit it off. At any wedding in the States, I think I could hold my own, but a reception where everything is in a foreign language that I understand about 14 percent of? Yeah, not so good.

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In this picture, you can see the sun is up and bright. It is about 6pm here.

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These are the “Toast Masters.” From what I can gather, everybody has them. Why would they need them you ask? Well, there are a lot of toasts…and by a lot…I mean…A LOT. The toasts lasted for 6 hours. I am NOT exaggerating by one minute. SIX. HOURS. Now, don’t get me wrong, it was not all talking. Some people performed little skits, some people sang songs and some people just said what was on their mind and in their heart. It was a touching and wonderful tribute to the couple. Oh, let me mention again…it was all in Swedish.

The Swedes also like to drink a lot. There was a different drink about every hour and of course, there was singing to help with the drinking. Inside of the “program” for the evening (along with a description of EVERY guest by name and number at the table where they were sitting…so you could know something about everyone) were Swedish songs. After each song, everyone toasts and takes a drink. After every toast, everyone clinks again and takes a drink. Did you catch that the toasts went on for SIX HOURS?

I wish I would have gotten this on film, but I did not. They have this awesome custom that when the bride or groom gets up to go the bathroom, all the men (if it is the groom who leaves) get up quickly and form a line to kiss the bride on the mouth. It is hilarious. The bride just keeps getting kissed and kissed. So, Nina left the room and all the girls jump up and go to kiss Staffan. When we get close, I say to the girl next to me “on the lips?” She laughs and says “Is there another way?” When in Rome…

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Now it is about 10 o’clock at night…

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11 o’clock…

…and then time for dessert.
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It is now after midnight and we have moved to another building to have an “after party” that involves live music, dancing, more alcohol and yet another meal that is served at 1 in the morning. This is the happy couple, wide awake, partying their socks off. I retired at about 4am (keep in mind the wedding was at 2pm and the drinking began at 5, so not bad.)

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The grounds where we all stayed.

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The little cabins by the sea.

It was a lovely weekend.

In other news…

August 7th, 2008 .

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I am supposed to leave for Russia on Monday. Unfortunately, I am still waiting on my passport, with visa attached, to be returned to me from the Russian Embassy in Washington D.C. Will it happen? Hmm…I am crossing my fingers.
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Last spring, I teased my parents that they needed some new blood in the house. I kept telling them I was going to show up with a kitten that they could not resist. Of course I was kidding and knew that they would kill me. So, I did not follow through on my threat. On June 4th, they drove me to the airport in Wichita to take off for the summer of travels. I talked to them on their drive home and they were concerned about a very bad storm that was moving through the area. When they arrived home safely, the storm really swung into high gear (it was the one that ended up beating the hell out of my car with tennis ball sized hail.) In the middle of the storm, the heard something outside the front of the house. They go to the door, open it up and find this little guy. Somethings are just meant to be.

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Meet Maxwell Smart. He is much bigger now and I guess he is terrorizing everyone in the house, but maybe that is what they all needed, a little upset to keep things interesting. =)
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I am going to my very first Swedish wedding this weekend. My friends Nina and Staffan are getting married on the island of Gotland in a 3 day wedding fest. I have never been to Gotland and am excited because to top it off, there is a very famous Medieval Festival going on during the time that we are there. That festival is in that crazy book of a thousand places you should go before you die. I will let you know if it is worth the trip. Oh, and incase you are wondering, no, the wedding is not medieval…at least I do not think so.

Check it out.
http://www.gotland.net/en
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I miss Target. Tomorrow, I will go on a shopping spree in the town of Oskarshamn. Margie and I have a plan to hit every store that is having a sale. The thing of it is is that people do no buy the cool stuff here, so it is ALL on the sale rack. It is like going to the Target in Salina where all the cool stuff is 75% off. Yeah, Jam, you know what I mean. Anyway, we will wipe this town clean tomorrow.
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A massive spill of moments

August 5th, 2008 .

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Sometimes in the middle of a work day, it seems appropriate to just stop and take everyone to the beach.

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The trip underground to the nuclear storage facility. Why did we go there? Umm, they gave us money. Why else?

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Candle light night.

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There was a festival in Oskarshamn by the Harbor. After the kids performed there and then we sent them home and headed to the ‘beer tent.’ Wild things happen in that beer tent. This is the aftermath.
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The streets of Oskarshamn at 2 in the morning. I can’t help but think how many people would go to jail if this happened in Salina, Kansas.

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Harry and Em visited us for a reading of act one. Harry was right at home in the middle of the circle, maybe remembering his days spent there when he was only 6 months old.

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The done-o-meter.

Christoffer (who wrote the Gloaming with us in Ohio) and Teresia (his girlfriend) came to visit us for the night. There is never enough time…
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Sporting my Cubs hat…

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Margie impersonating a valley girl…nice.

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Pelle- the Swedish version of my brother, drummer and all. He is a ball to hang out with, but makes me ache for Lancer.

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This is the view from the Petersson’s (Mats’ parents) window where we had an adult like dinner…with drinks that had starfruit in them. Yeah, that makes you an adult.

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Birgitta- Mats’ mom, wonderful person and new adminstrator for Lovewell Sweden.

On Saturday night after we closed the show, we had a cast party in a Swedish barn in the countryside. Alumni and former staff showed up from far and wide…even some from the U.S. There was an ultimate sing along that really reminded me how far this program has reached, including songs written in my childhood. Everyone knew all the words- kids, parents, everyone. It made me equally happy and sad. It is so hard to be part of something that is so difficult to put words to and therefore makes others feel left out of the click. No matter how good intentions are, I know that that happens with Lovewell. Now there is this new layer that is within our international programs that are impossible to share with the rest of the gang in the U.S. I guess my hope is that everyone feels this incredible connection that reaches around the world. Saturday night, I felt that more than ever. Thousands of miles away in Florida, they were opening a Lovewell Junior show, we were closing our show here in Sweden and my friends/family were all gathered in Chicago together. These connections truly have become a “Chain of Change.”

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Kid sandwich.

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The cast, staff and creators of Instinct.

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So long, Oskarshamn…

Message in the Sky

August 4th, 2008 .

The opening number from Instinct:

DO YOU HAVE THIS FEELING
LIKE AN EARTHQUAKE IN YOUR MIND?
OUR SENSE OVERFLOWING
WITH WORRIES FOR OUR KIND

WE SHOULD ALL BECOME AWARE
SO HOW DO WE PREPARE
WE’VE BEEN SENSING SOMETHING STRANGE
IS THE WORLD ABOUT TO CHANGE?

STARS HAVE BEEN FALLING
CONSTELLATIONS ARE ALIGNED
MOTHER EARTH IS CALLING
WE HAVE BEEN GIVEN A SIGN
NO ONE CAN DENY
THERE’S A MESSAGE IN THE SKY

RUNT OM HELA VÄRLDEN
HAR VI KÄNT ATT NÅT ÄR FEL
NU MÅSTE VI AGERA
FÖR ALLTING STÅR PÅ SPEL

AROUND THE WHOLE WORLD
FELT THAT SOMETHING’S WRONG
NOW WE HAVE TO ACT
BECAUSE EVERYTHING IS AT STAKE

VI MÅSTE VARA PÅ VÅR VAKT
SOM MODER JORD HAR SAGT
VI HAR KÄNT ATT VINDEN VÄNT
VAD ÄR DET SOM HAR HÄNT?

WE HAVE TO BE ON OUR GUARD
LIKE MOTHER EARTH HAS TOLD US
WE HAVE FELT A CHANGE IN THE WIND
WHAT HAS HAPPENED

STARS HAVE BEEN FALLING
CONSTELLATIONS ARE ALIGNED
MOTHER EARTH IS CALLING
WE HAVE BEEN GIVEN A SIGN
NO ONE CAN DENY
THERE’S A MESSAGE IN THE SKY

AGAINST OUR NATURE
GATHER FOR A HIGHER CAUSE
NEVER THOUGHT IT WOULD COME TO THIS
WE’RE ALL HERE BECAUSE…

WE SHOULD ALL BECOME AWARE
SO HOW DO WE PREPARE
WE’VE BEEN SENSING SOMETHING STRANGE
IS THE WORLD ABOUT TO CHANGE?

STARS HAVE BEEN FALLING
CONSTELLATIONS ARE ALIGNED
MOTHER EARTH IS CALLING
WE HAVE BEEN GIVEN A SIGN
NO ONE CAN DENY
EVEN IF YOU TRY
THERE’S A REASON WHY
THERE’S A MESSAGE IN THE SKY